I see a lot of amateur BDSM on my dash. Loving couples engaged in whatever sort of kink they want fulfilled. A beautiful expression of trust, support, and communication.
The kinky fun is spoiled, time and time again, by many a pretentious douche, hiding behind a campy screen name, who just HAS to open their mouth and comment on how they can do better, or how “That spanking isn’t anything compared to what I could do to her.”
These sorts of comments absolutely disgust me. You can spank harder? You can take more licks? Good for you. Either way, any sort of consensual kink is a personal engagement with its’ own limits, goals, and execution. BDSM is not about who can take the most pain or who has the most toys. It’s about reaching personal fulfilment and building trust.
I wish some people would just appreciate what these couples are sharing with us instead of critiquing everything.